***SUCCESS STORY***

i love your news letter and i have been reading it
for almost a year. i have been with the same girl
for nine months because of you dave! i used to the
same way about chics, buying them dinners, etc.
but once i started applying your techniques i met
the love of my life. i drive a piece of crap and i
am a broke college student. i played like i didnt
care when my girl and i first met before i know it
she's giving me lots of great sex, money, dvd
player, clothes,vetc. i was cocky and funny but
also threw in a little sweetness to catch her off
gaurd. Ladies get bored with the same old
dates,etc. I did outrAGEOUS THINGS IN AND OUT OF
THE BEDROOM AND NOW WE ARE PROBABLY GOING TO GET
MARRIED LATER ON WHEN I GET OUT OF COLLEGE!

THANKS DAVE! -C FROM TX

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   What's this you say?

   You have a great girl buying YOU things...
including clothes, and even DVD players?

   Very powerful stuff.

   You know, in your letter you mentioned throwing
in a "little sweetness" to "catch her off guard."

   I would like to share a little profound
revelation:

   It's OK to be sweet.

   Yes, I know, sounds a little weird coming from
me.

   But, it is OK to be sweet to women.

   The problem is that most guys do it TOO MUCH,
and TOO SOON. And they come across as needy Wuss
Boys who are trying to use "niceness" to
manipulate.

   When you meet a girl you really like and decide
that you want to take things to a "relationship"
level, it's actually great to be sweet.

   Just don't do it before date #10! lol...

***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***

Hi Dave,

I recently had a very serious conversation with my
boyfriend of two years about threesomes. I know
this isn't really a dating question, but I want to
get some input about this situation in
relationships in general and I thought you and
your newsletter would be a good place to start. I
am aware that as far as every guy in the world is
concerned a threesome is the best thing that could
happen in a relationship because he gets to have
twice as much fun as normal. But could most guys
actually go through with it? Could they really
have sex (or whatever else) with a girl while
being in a serious relationship with another? Does
this stuff even go through the mind of the average
male?

I am also aware that guys like two girl and one
guy threesomes and not the other way around. would
a guy think about the situation more if it were
their girlfriend having sex with another guy?
Also, how often do threesome ideas make it out of
the minds of men and into the bedroom?

hope you can answer some of my questions

es canada

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   You're right about this not being a dating
question, but who cares... it's a question about
all men's favorite fantasy, so I'll allow it.

   Now, what the heck are you doing asking, "Would
a guy think about the situation more if it were
their girlfriend having sex with another guy?"

   Who cares! No guys do. They only want to know
what you'd look like kissing your best friend.

   LOL!

   And yes, your boyfriend could "have sex (or
whatever else)" with a girl while being in a
serious relationship with another.

   Hey, you're the one who opened up the barn door
by having the "very serious conversation" with
him.

   Let me know if it happens. We're all on the
edge of our seats here.

***QUESTION***

You know what David, you were right, and I feel
sick to my stomach right now. I met this woman,
went out a few times, nailed her the first night
and all that. I bought her some flowers for
Valentine's Day, mostly because she complained
like 3 times since I've known her (only a couple
weeks) that she never gets flowers on Valentine's
Day, so I wanted to surprise her.

So I took great care to sneak around her while she
wasn't looking, and plant them where she'd find
them. Well she did, and here's what she said, "Oh,
that's a really nice gesture, but next time just
leave them in my car okay? I don't want the other
students giving me a hard time or making faces at
me (this was at karate class)", In one quick
moment, my heart sank right to the floor, and I
felt WORSE about myself than before I bought her
the flowers! NEVER AGAIN am I wasting money on
this bullsh** holiday unless I've been with
someone for a year or more.

I can't believe I actually feel LESS close, and
like I have LESS power with this woman than I did
before I did something nice for her. You better
believe I won't make this mistake again. If you're
willing, lease share this story with your readers
so that at least the other guys can benefit from
my ignorance, and learn a lesson from it too. J

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Hey, you can't say I didn't warn you.

   I'd offer a hug, but what YOU need is a to be
slapped up side the head for being a JACKASS!

   You bought something for a woman because she
COMPLAINED?

   Here, do this:

   Go in the bathroom.

   Find the mirror.

   Take a big black sharpie pen, and write the
following on your forehead (backwards, so you can
read it):

   "STOP BEING A DUMBASS!"

   Try that.

   If you're still with this girl in a YEAR, then
buy her some flowers.

   But, will you leave them in her car this time?

   Thanks for contributing... you've probably
saved many guys from a similar fate.

***QUESTION From A WOMAN***

David,

First of all, I would like to say that I really
enjoy reading your newsletters. A male friend of
mine started receiving them, and he now has me
reading them too. Now, thanks to you, we have both
adopted a "NO WUSS" policy..he's going to stop
being one, and I'm going to stop dating them. :)

I have a question that I would like your insight
on.. perhaps I should set the stage with a sample
online conversation... (After the usual initial
blah blah and silly comments on my part, he asked
and I sent him a pic)

him: yep, cute him: how tall are u

me: 5'10"

(insert cricket sound effects and silence)

me: helloooooooooo

him: later.. need to go work on a paper the end.

Me to the cricket: well, at least he didn't ask if
I play basketball.

My question is this.. are most men really
intimidated by taller women? If so, why? I have
actually dated a couple of people who were
obviously uncomfortable with my being taller than
they are. One even asked if I would mind not
wearing heels when we're out together, because it
made him feel weird. Needless to say, he got the
boot. (ha) If this is a silly concern, feel free
to hit "delete" or tell me to consult the pages of
Cosmo. I can take it! :) I'd just like to know if
there's anything I can do to make these guys feel
more at ease.

Thanks a lot!

BL

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Yes, a lot of guys are intimidated by tall
women.

   No, I'm not.

   Yes, send me your number and picture.

   By the way, I fit your "No Wussy" policy. I'm
your man.

***FOLLOW UP COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Hi Dave,

You are a Brat. I wanted to clarify something from
my letter which seemed to set you off. That part
about school/marraige/fairness: To be fair, if he
invested in my education, as my husband, he would
more likely get a return on that investment than
if he were just a boyfriend I was living with. It
is my opinion that people who live together have
all these committed ties, but one foot out the
door. Kinda like playing house. Personally, I
don't like doing things that half-a**ed, and would
prefer to eventually make a home--with the right
guy.

You are right on about him needing your material,
but if I sent him your e-book, it would be
insulting, don'tcha think? I do get bored if a guy
doesn't keep me on my toes, I know that about
myself. And, after awhile, it's a bore being the
only one pointing up to the sky.

What's the deal with you, anyway? Are you just
shopping? What happens to a guy who has all the
lines? Maybe this forum your path to personal
enlightenment. So, how's that going? SC from Sac

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   Ohhhh, well thanks for clarifying.

   I understand now.

   If he supports you and pays for you to go to
school when you're MARRIED, then "he would more
likely get a return on that investment than if he
were a boyfriend I was living with"...

   Powerful.

   More likely.

   Return on investment.

   I feel ya.

   That changes everything and makes it completely
fair.

   Oh, and I didn't recommend that you buy him my
eBook. I recommended that you buy him my ADVANCED
MATERIAL. He needs serious help, dear.

   And what's the deal with ME?

   Am I "just shopping"?

   "What happens to a guy who has all the lines?"

   What do you mean "What happens?"

   You make it sound like I should be going
through some empty feeling of superficial
accomplishment followed by a depressing
realization of unfulfillment... now that I know
the secrets of how to make women feel attracted to
me.

   Sorry, can't help you there.

   Knowing what makes women "tick" kicks ass!

***QUESTION***

Hi David,

this is a letter from one of your italian fans....
after having received your newsletter for several
months now, im really thinking to purchase your e-
book... i was specially impressed by the
"cocky&funny" attitude which attracts women in a
great way! and damn! this stuff works!!!

the interesting thing i want you to know is that i
have been a horrible wussy for several years! i
did almost everything on your wussy list! like
being nice to everyone....and so on...(;
fortunately (at the age of 20, now im 22) i had
the luck to meet a guy of 27 years who was very
successfull and experienced in approaching and
"getting fisical" with girls...he taught me a lot
about psicology of women and other very intresting
stuff you already should know...(; almost each
weekend we went out he got to know new girls,
specially american students here in rome and other
really good looking italian beautys...i analyzed
what he did, his behaviour and so on...

and now we ask ourselves...why was he so
successfull? and the answer is that he was almost
all the time cocky and funny! always making fun of
the girls! and he wasnt even goodlooking, just
medium...i began to imitate his behaviour and
since then i had an incredible success with girls
which surprised myself and all my friends because
i was dating one really hot girl after another....
so if you want to get interesting or "attractive"
you gotta be special, unique, full of selfesteem,
funny, unpredictable and all the other stuff you
teach us! thats the way how it works...sure there
are thousands of other things to do...i dont need
to tell you...

now i got a very important question for you, i
think that this should be a big help for almost
everyone receiving your newsletters or already
owning your e-book. my biggest problem is the
first contact...how to behave afterwards and how
to get fisical later is much easier in my
opinion...lets take this example, im in a pub with
a friend of mine, close to us are, lets say 3
goodlooking girls on a table and two of them seem
to be interested because they keep on looking to
us...they smile at us, look in our eyes for a few
seconds and play with their hair, showing you
their "delicious" neck , talk with a loud voice to
take your attention and so on ( some of the signs
women usually make)...my problem is now how to go
on! they seem to be interested but nobody is
outgoing enough to walk over to the other table to
start a conversation in order to establish a first
contact.. you always teach us that the content of
the conversation is not so important as the way
you say it right? but what can i tell them? (
fear of rejection i know) . how would you react or
behave? walking by, what would you tell them? ( i
think just asking them if they want to sit down
with us on our table is very wussy)... try to give
us concrete examples of the first "cocky&funny"
contact in a pub or other tipical places... that
would be great...

thanks for helping the wussyfied planet...(;

M.M. Rome, Italy

>>>MY COMMENTS:

   You know, I'm glad to hear that you met a guy
who was successful with women, and learned from
him.

   OF COURSE he was Cocky & Funny.

   I learned most of my best ideas about how to
meet women from guys who were successful with
women, and I found that they all did basically the
SAME things... even though they didn't "realize"
that they were doing anything at all, for the most
part.

   Meeting and hanging out with "naturals" is one
of the very best things you can do to learn how to
be more successful with women (the other is to
study the materials that I've put together at the
same time, so you can have the advantage of having
it all explained to you).

   Now, to answer your question about approaching
women in "a pub."

   I think the issue that you're PROBABLY dealing
with is REJECTION.

   You're probably afraid to go start a
conversation because you don't want to be rejected
by women.

   Once you can face this reality and start to
deal with it, then you'll start making more
progress.

   My experience starting conversations with
groups of more than one woman in bars is that your
ENERGY makes a huge impact.

   In other words, if you walk over and act
nervous and stilted, the women will get nervous
and act cold.

   If you act like you're having a good time, you
think they look like some fun people to talk to,
and you start on that note, they'll be FAR more
likely to be friendly and open.

   Now, I know a lot of guys who are GREAT at
meeting women in bars. Some of them use rather
interesting and complex techniques that range from
"pick up lines" all the way to magic and psychic
readings.

   Try this:

   Pick up your drink, walk over to the table,
think of the funniest moment of your life so you
have a smile on your face and say, "What, are you
girls shy or something?"

   When they say, "NO, why?"

   Answer, "Because I've been sitting at the next
table for at least a half hour and you haven't
come over to say hi to me!"

   I have about 3 different friends who all use
variations of this opening... and it works great
(if you're having fun when you say it).

   You need to get over your FEAR. Once you stop
caring what women think of you, then you'll make a
LOT more progress.